2019 Holiday Tips Survey: The Results are IN!

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Here are the key findings from the annual Park Slope Parents Holiday Tips Survey in which Brooklyn residents report their upcoming end-of-year gifts to service providers, nannies, and teachers.

  • Gifts for K-12 teachers have risen. The amount people are giving to K-12 teachers is up from last year. The most frequently given amount to these teachers is $50 this year, up from $25 last year.
  • Tips to neighborhood service providers are down from prior years. Reported tips for supers, door security, occasional babysitters, and more are down from last year.
  • NYC urban living has its costs. Having a full-time nanny, dog walker, parking attendant and living in a doorman building with a super will cost you around $1800 in tips if you gift this year's average. 
  • Folks are showing gratitude with more than just money. One in three (32%) are giving something more than cash (homemade cookies, treats, wine) to their service providers.
  • Almost all employers with nannies plan on giving a monetary bonus this year (97%). Three in four (77%) give a week’s pay as a bonus.
    • Caveat: If your nanny hasn’t been working a year then you can give less, (e.g., ½ week’s pay if they’ve worked only 3 months) but do let the nanny know if you plan on giving more next year.
    • ALSO: Don’t assume a week off without pay is something that your nanny will appreciate. Unless otherwise discussed when you hired your nanny, giving the nanny the week between Christmas and New Year without pay is frowned upon. Most would rather work for pay than miss out on money to support their family.
  • Daycare and preschool teachers feel the gratitude.Typical monetary gifts for both head and secondary teachers is $50. Unlike K-12, parents typically give separately with only two out of three (68%) giving an individual gift only.
  • Power in (organized) numbers. Eight in ten (80%) parents with kids in K-12 students contribute to a class gift.
  • Thank everyone. A kind gesture to the folks that support your life (e.g., crossing guards, lunch staff, accountants, after school staff, tutors, and therapists) is always appreciated!

 

DETAILED FINDINGS:

Personal Neighborhood Service Providers:

 

Home Related Providers

Average Tip/Gift

Mode

Difference from 2018

Superintendent

$102

$100

-$20

House Cleaner

$108

$100

-$1

Daytime Doorman

$77

$50

-$29

Dog Walker

$104

$100

+4

Occasional Babysitter

$72

$100

-$49

Nighttime Doorman

$66

$50

-$14

Porter

$55

$50

-$15

Hair Stylist

$53

$20

-$7

Parking Attendant

$48

$40

-$3

Package Delivery (non-USPS)

$28

$20

$0

USPS Mail Carrier

$24

$20

-$1

New York Sanitation Department Garbage/Truck Recycling

$24

$20

$0

TOTAL

761

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-$135

 

Daycare, Preschool, and K-12 Teachers

  • Almost everyone (88%) contributes to a combined class gift to K-12 teachers. Some parents use websites and apps like Frumus, Venmo, Payit2 and Signup Genius to organize and pool donations.

 

Type of Teacher

Average Tip/Gift

Mode

Preschool/Daycare Head Teacher

$65

$50

Preschool/Daycare Secondary Teacher

$51

$50

K-12 Teacher*

$45

$50

Special Services Teacher

$33

$25

Afterschool Service Providers

$33

$20

 

Is it against the DOE policy to give teachers’ gifts? It is NOT the case that Department of Education K-12 teachers cannot receive gifts. Department of Education policy states: “Teachers may accept class gifts as long as parents are not asked to contribute more than a small amount of money towards the gift and all parents are given an opportunity to sign the card, whether or not they contribute to the gift.” However, be reasonable—extravagant gifts could get your teacher in hot water!

*Learn more about holiday gifts for teachers, including do’s and don’ts, in the Park Slope Parents’ article: How to Thank Teachers at the Holidays & End of the Year.

Nannies

  • ALL of the respondents (100%) are using the holidays as an opportunity to give a yearly bonus or gifts.
  • 83% of employers give amounts incremental to a week’s pay. Of these, 77% give a week’s pay, 22% give two week’s pay, and 2% give three week’s pay.
  • The average end-of-year bonus a nanny will receive is $688.
  • Almost half (46%) of Brooklyn families with a nanny also give a non-monetary purchased gift as well as a bonus.  More than 20% also give a homemade gift. 

 

Nanny Situation

Average Amount 2019

Average Amount 2018

Average Amount 2017

Average Amount 2016

Average Amount 2015

Average Amount 2014

Full time (over 40 hours/week) 

$1043

$1083

$1032

$969

$832

$1005

Part-time (16-40 hours)    

$605

$530

$551

$540

$487

$597

Part-time (up to 15 hours) 

$210

$198

$215

$284

$241

$167

OVERALL Average for Nanny

$688

$765

$762

$760

$724*

$623

 

Has your nanny worked for less than a year? If a nanny has worked for less than a year but more than three months, most employers give at least a half-week of pay. Make sure to inform your nanny that you intend to give a full-week’s pay next year, if things work out. Also, if you give bonuses on anniversaries rather than the end-of-year, remind them of that timeline.   

Since newer nannies (those who have worked less than three months) may feel left out without a bonus, we suggest giving a bonus worth about 2-3 days pay. Again, make sure to give an explanation of your reasoning, and tell them what they can expect next year. Clarity about when your nanny can expect raises and bonuses is key.

As always, a heartfelt note with sincere gratitude (maybe a list of specific things you appreciate) always warms the heart and makes folks special and thanked. (Feel free to do that to EVERYONE in your life!)

 

METHODOLOGY:
Park Slope Parents collected 482 responses from December 1 - December 9th, 2109 via an online survey program (surveymonkey.com). The survey was distributed online through the Park Slope Parents website, their email groups and social media outlets, online blogs, and other online parenting/ neighborhood groups (Yahoo! Groups, FaceBook, Groups.io and more). The results are based on tips and gifts in Brooklyn only.

  

ABOUT PARK SLOPE PARENTS

  • Park Slope Parents (PSP) is a community in Brooklyn, NY of more than 7,000 local families who offer each other support and community throughout the parenting experience.
  • PSP online resources include a public website with member reviews and parenting advice, online forums including an Advice List (exchanging information about parenting and community issues), a Classifieds list (a local buy/sell/trade group for swapping kid gear and finding nannies), and a Career Networking Group which connects parents to jobs and professional resources. It also has over 100 subgroups including pregnancy and new parent, dads, working moms, bilingual, LGBTQ, industry-related career, cooking, gardening, allergy, vegetarian and more.
  • PSP offers offline, in-person events including parenting workshops, clothing swaps, community fundraisers, and networking events.
  • PSP also partners with nonprofits such as the Brooklyn Family Justice Center, Little Essentials, Sheltering Arms, and Lantern Community Services to provide donations to those in need.
  • PSP also sponsors community events such as the Celebrate Brooklyn Concerts, Prospect Park Alliance events, and more
  • Park Slope Parents is open to all parents in Brooklyn and requires an annual membership fee of $50 ($45 for renewals) to support ongoing services (like this Holiday Tips Survey). Membership includes discounts to more than 500 local products and services.
  • Parents in Brooklyn can apply for membership here: https://parkslopeparents.clubexpress.com/