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Resources for Renting Woes during COVID-19
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- Category: Newsflash, Moving, New York Life
Nobody wants to have to break their lease or be in debt to their landlord, but—especially during the coronavirus pandemic—life happens. If you’re finding yourself in a challenging situation with your apartment or small business venue due to financial constraints or an unexpected need to relocate, these resources and tips sourced from PSP members can help.
Here’s What You Need to Know to Vote in NYC
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According to Brookings, a record 83 percent of voters say that it really matters who wins the election in 2020. Compare that to the 2000 election between George W. Bush and Al Gore, when just 50 percent of the voters thought that it really mattered who won. That unprecedented level of enthusiasm could translate into record-high turnout in November, but achieving that will be a collective effort on a massive scale. Come on, PSP—let’s make it happen!
Meal and Cooking Advice for Busy Parents! Plus, Advice On "Do You Eat Dinner as a Family? And How Do You Do It?"
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- Category: Eating, Work/Life Balance Tips, Back To Work, Working Parents, Recipes and Food Ideas
Includes meal planning tips, recipe ideas, and also suggestions for lunch and breakfast too!
Noise & Kids - Apartment Living
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- Category: General Parenting Advice, New York Life, Managing Urban Life
Question :
Well, we got our first kid-noise complaint today. My downstairs neighbor wrote: I can hear your son running back and forth, back and forth. I can pretty much hear everything down here. Its a bit much, especially at 7:30 AM. "
Raising Bilingual Kids
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- Category: General Parenting Advice, Languages & Culture
Parents talk about raisining bilingual kids.
Sleeping Babies & Dear Doggies
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- Category: Sleeping, Sleeping Advice for Babies, Animal Advice
One parent raised the following dilemma: “how do parents meet competing needs of all beloved household creatures when they don't fall together, time-wise?’
Partner Parenting
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- Category: Sleeping, General Parenting Advice, Home Management Advice, Family Time Management
Studies show that women still do more household chores than their partner, including childcare and maintenance. Some call it the invisible workload; others refer to it as the household gender gap or the second shift. Interesting data can be found elsewhere (like this 2016 Huffington Post article) and PSP members have plenty of anecdotal evidence. PSP members also have useful tips and advice about how they distributed childcare tasks. This article divulges their most intimate words of wisdom about sharing the workload with your parent - with a focus on feeding, sleeping, and taking care of the little one in the middle of the night.
Lost or Found a Pet?
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Have you found or lost a cat or dog in the neighborhood? Here's what to do...
Wanna Adopt a Dog? Here's Some Advice
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Looking for a a new addition to the family? Here is PSP member advice for adopting (or fostering) a dog:
- Remember that YOU will be spending a lot of your time with your dog. Make sure you feel confident your family will be able to provide your pet a good and loving home in 5,10 or 15 years.
- If you are not ready to commit to adoption, try fostering a dog. This is a great way to see if a dog might be right for your family or not.
- Find a dog that is a great match for your family, living situation, schedule, etc. Do research online and determine what kind of dog will best fit your lifestyle (What breed? Big or small? Young or mature? Etc.). Be patient and willing to go back to shelters- they get new dogs all the time.
- Know that dogs can be expensive, and their care takes time, but the love they give makes it all worth it!
- Check out our list of PSP recommended shelters here!
Dog Adoption Advice Compilation 5.1.18
I grew up with a dog as did my husband and both by girls (5 and 3) want a dog and we are almost ready to take the plunge. While we are not getting a puppy, I wanted to get some advice from you. For those of you who have a dog and children, can you tell me what it's been like? What is the hardest part of having a dog in the city especially when you don't have a back yard. And how expensive is it to have a dog?
Thanks for any feedback!
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One thing I've noticed about having dogs now vs. back when I was a kid and dinosaurs roamed the earth is that people spend more on their dogs (cats too). It was extremely unusual when I was a kid to see a dog with a coat, even though I grew up on L.I. where the weather was the same as here and now. Also my parents thought they were indulgent to use Alpo/Purina/whatever basic food rather than the store brand. But almost everyone I know with a dog or cat uses much more expensive food as recommended by their vet. And maybe I'm just lucky but my cat, now 7, hasn't been to the vet since he finished his shots and had his operation. Since he's an indoor cat, there's no need for protection from illnesses he could get outside. He's happy with his Purina cat chow, indoor formula--he didn't like the store brands so I feel indulgent giving him a brand name. But no Iams or Purina 1 or higher-end stuff for us.
But that's just me.
When we got the cat after much begging by my daughter, who was 9 at the time, I agreed with the personal understanding that I had to be ok with taking care of this animal for his natural life. And that's what happened. I won't go for a dog, much as she'd like one (she's 16 now) because I don't want to get stuck taking it out 365 days a year, rain or shine, morning and night.”
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After 2 months of consistently training him, he finally started seeing progress on all fronts! The key is to "be consistent" and avoid punishing the dog. Fast forward several years, and he had become the king of the couch (and the bed).
...and then, our daughter came along. He started to show jealousy by pooping in the apartment. That was frustrating and I admit to yelling at him from time to time. But with extra love and attention, he was able to get over it and started to love the new addition in the family. And despite all of the abuse he gets from my daughter (the pulling of his hair and tail), not once has he ever bit or ever growled at her.
As for expense, I spend $75 in grooming every 6-8 weeks. His food probably costs us $100 a month (including treats), and annual vet check-ups and medication cost another $400 or so a year. Of course, there are always unexpected expenses that pop up. He ingested ice-melting salt last year (which is toxic), resulting in a $500 vet bill. And last month, we spent close to $2500 to treat glaucoma, ultimately removing the eye (he is now a one eyed dog and much more happier than he had been with the glaucoma).
Dog can be expensive, and their care takes time, but no more so than any other family member, and the love they give makes it all worth it.
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I’m all for having a pet with kids. Yes, there's some work involved, but
teaching and modeling caring for a creature is priceless in the raising of
kids, IMO.
We have two rescued pit bulls. One is 14, and I had before kids, and one we
just rescued last year. The rescue process has been super fascinating for
my 7 year old, who is now passionate about rescuing dogs and wants to give
saved allowance to dog rescues. She also participates in helping me keep
the occasional foster puppy, work at adoption events, etc.
I don't think owning a dog has to be as expensive as some make it-- other
than vet, food, and some toys, everything else is optional.
My two cents. FYI- there are some AMAZING BK rescues that are overwhelmed
with unwanted animals, especially after the holidays, sadly. Try BARC or
Sean Casey Animal Rescue to start.
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1. Pets are a family responsibility: everyone has to be on-board
with the idea of bringing them into the family, living with them, and
caring for them.
2. Many people don't consider how long a newly-adopted pet will live,
and whether they will be able to give their mature pet a good and
loving home after 5, 10 or 15 years.
Yes! Adopt a pet for your kids, but get it for yourself, as well.
Remember that YOU will be spending a lot of your time with
it for many years.
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If there's a specific kind of dog you and your family are waiting out for, you can search online at petfinder.org and use any number of filters (age, breed, size, "good w/ kids", etc). The website consolidates a number of rescue organizations, shelters, etc. to show almost any and every dog (or cat) available for adoption. Sean Casey and others post as well, and that way you can search for the dog you want, and then work w/ whatever agency that's caring for the dog to ask about health, vet history, whatever.
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We don’t have a dog because not allowed in our apt but I know Korean K9 Rescue is an all volunteer, non-profit dog rescue group in NY and they seem so passionate. Dogs come from the brutal dog meat trade farms in Korea and are also puppy mill survivors. You can check their Instagram account
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You might also consider fostering a dog. This is a great way to see if a dog might be right for your family or not.
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We got our fantastic mutt Leo from Badass Rescue. Here's what we really like about them: they take dogs from kill shelters in the South and foster them up here in peoples' homes. That means there are real people who get to know these dogs; when you go to a Badass adoption event, you can say "I need a kid-friendly pup," and people will actually know which dogs to introduce you to.
Badass has a wonderful Facebook community too, where you can go for excellent advice and gratuitous pictures of cute dogs.
Badass is a little more expensive than some other options, but we think it was worth it.
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Adopting a dog has so many rewards - I highly recommend it. BUT don't go into it thinking it will be easy. There will be adjustments for everyone and you should plan on potentially budgeting for a dog trainer that has knowledge about animal behavior because there may be particular issues that need addressing (compared to a trainer who helps you teach your dog to sit and stay). A good dog behaviorist can identify what your particular dog needs.
I would say it was a very challenging first couple of weeks and then a challenging 4 months. But you would have challenges with a puppy too.
Also, don't let anyone push you into a dog. Find a dog that is right for your family -- do some research about breeds so you have a general sense of what kind of dog fits your family (ie. a Jack Russell mix is small and might seem good for an apartment but they are VERY energetic so maybe not so good for your family). Be patient and willing to go back to shelters (they get new dogs all the time).
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I want to second Brooklyn Badass. As someone who spent years volunteering in shelters and as a foster and adopter it is very very hard to appreciate how a dog will be at home when you see him at the shelter. They can be in small cages and are extra energetic and anxious from the noise and lack of exercise .... they are not the dog you will be bringing home. It is a very overwhelming experience for you and for the dog you meet. As the previous poster mentioned, because Badass rescue dogs who then go straight into a foster situation you can get a much better idea of how that dog is in his day to day life. You can ask lots of questions that tbe overwrked staff and volunteers at shelters cannot answer in a way the foster parent can.
Good luck in finding your perfect match! It’s an incredible, beautiful thing.
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Dog Adoption Advice Compilation 4.25.18
Dear All,
we are considering adopting a dog, and would like to hear some feedback on rescue places, such as Sean Casey and Bark, that are the ones coming up in searches for Brooklyn.
If anyone has a place to recommend, where they had a positive experience, we would like to have their info - we can go to Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens.
We really would like to find the right pet for our family: healthy, compatible with kids (one is 9 year old, one is 17 and almost out of the door), not too big, etc.
Some of the reviews for popular adoption places are scaring me, I do not know how to go about this.
Thank you.
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If there's a specific kind of dog you and your family are waiting out for, you can search online at petfinder.org and use any number of filters (age, breed, size, "good w/ kids", etc). The website consolidates a number of rescue organizations, shelters, etc. to show almost any and every dog (or cat) available for adoption. Sean Casey and others post as well, and that way you can search for the dog you want, and then work w/ whatever agency that's caring for the dog to ask about health, vet history, whatever.
However, if you still wanted to pick an organization first, the ones I know are:
- I've volunteered with Animal Haven in soho, and would recommend going them as a reliable organization that rescues dogs;
- I volunteered for one day w/ Sean Casey as well, and I didn't see anything that would concern me about adopting a dog from that organization.
- Years ago, I adopted a dog from Stray from the Heart -- I loved the dog, but I did feel like the organization (not the volunteer who fostered the dog) purposely waited to tell me the dog was older, and not as healthy as they led me to believe.
It would depend on what you’re looking for in an organization that would give you trust, but I recommend using petfinder to find the right dog, regardless of the organization.
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Hi,
In terms of personal experience with shelters, I used to volunteer at the ACC
(Animal Care Centers). They are contracted by the city so they must take in all stray animals. It is also unfortunately a kill shelter because they are so overcrowded. They have a list every night of the animals on the at risk list, you can check the list and place a hold on an animal you’re interested in. https://m.facebook.com/ACC.OfficialAtRiskAnimals/
They have adoption centers in Brooklyn, Manhattan and Staten Island. They also list on their website all of their New Hope partners - these are other rescue groups in the region that take in ACC animals when they can - super helpful to have a list in one place of all of the rescue groups in the city!
https://www.nycacc.org/get-involved/new-hope/nhpartners
I’ve also previously adopted cats from the ASPCA and never had a problem.
You might also consider fostering a dog. This is a great way to see if a dog might be right for your family or not.
Good luck!
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I would highly recommend Animal Care and Control (ACC), the city shelter system. These dogs need homes desperately. While there is a stereotype of the aggressive dog, most of these animals are gentle and relinquished because of the circumstances of their owners.
We adopted a beautiful, gentle Shih-tzu and couldn’t be happier.
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We had a good experience with Sean Casey. We got a dog that was the right size for us (35-30lbs) and low shedding (his fur needs to be groomed/cut rather than a short hair kind of dog). He was traumatized by being in the shelter but Sean Casey did help me a bit with how to handle him. The one critique of I have is that we had a cat and I asked if this dog would be ok with a cat. The way they tested it was to put the dog and a cat in the same room. Neither animal reacted but that was because they were freaked out being in the shelter. Once our adopted dog got comfortable, he went after the cat. In all fairness, you probably can't get a real answer that question unless the dog is being fostered in a private home.
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Hi there!
Just want to say THANK YOU for adopting (oh man I feel like my 15 month old who condescendingly has started patting me on the back .... but I mean it!).
Ps. Statistically larger, black dogs are the most vulnerable (ie least likely to be adopted).
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A lot of the rescue organizations, including the ASPCA (also in upper Manhattan) will do a screening process and take dogs directly from ACC. I got my lovely long unidentifiable mutt sweetheart from Animal Haven in Soho - they were really easy to work with and had a wonderful bunch of sweet pups. It is tempting to recommend going straight to ACC since those dogs are closest to being put down, but I think that going to another no-kill adoption agency will likely be a better experience for your family and will open up a spot for that organization to take another dog out of a kill shelter. I've also heard great things about Sean Casey animal rescue.
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An enthusiastic vote for Brooklyn Badass Animal Rescue!! Everything about the organization is thorough and thoughtful and designed for finding the right match, which is so important for both your family and the dog. Their community of adopters is so helpful when managing day-to-day needs (finding a vet, surprise behaviors or conditions, etc). It’s a rewarding experience overall.
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I want to point out that shelter adoption isn't about the experience provided by the shelter. They aren't there to make sure you have a good or bad one; they are there to rescue dogs. It's up to you to be ready for whatever emotional/logistical challenges this presents. I've adopted from both ACC and a small suburban rescue group and gotten equally amazing dogs from both. (I'm also a Sean Casey neighbor and can't say enough good things about them.)
Good luck! An amazing dog is out there for you somewhere.
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Not sure if anyone mentioned yet Animal Haven in lower Manhattan, but they are a well-regarded no-kill animal shelter bringing in unwanted and abandoned pets from the area, and all over the world. I have seen their facility which is top notch and they have an Instagram feed of their animals, and on there they share success stories (as well as some heartbreaking ones of how specific animals came to them.) I know the Director personally so, happy to make a connection if you like. She can give you excellent advice and even provide a tour of the facility to view the pets up for adoption. It's really a special place!
Good luck!
Become a Foster Home for a Dog or Kitty
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- Category: Volunteer Opportunities - Local Organizations, Animal Advice
Interested in Fostering a kitty or dog?
Tips for Subletting and Home Exchanges
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- Category: Hood Pages, Home Management Advice
With a few simple steps, rules and preparation, home exchanges and subletting can be a really positive experience. As a renter, housing exchanges can offer you the comforts of being in a home and provide your family with plenty of space and amenities. And as a host, you can even make some money from renting out your home to visitors.
Double Parking Do & Don'ts
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- Category: Managing Urban Life, New York Life
The Do's & Don'ts of double parking in New York City...
More Bed Bug Woes
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- Category: Managing Urban Life, Home Management Advice
More bed bugs questions answered...
(bed bugs have six legs and are very flat - almost paper thin that helps make them expert hiders)
Please Take Care Of Your Autumn Leaves!
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- Category: Managing Urban Life, New York Life
With fall comes spectucular autumn folliage. Nothing beats the sound of leaves crunching under our feet. Sadly, New York City streets just can't handle all of it. The leaves, as lovely as they are, clog gutters & drains (especially if you sweep leaves down 'em). And what happens then? Flooding in your apartment. Plus, when leaves pile up it is impossible for street cleaners to do their job. And what happens then? We are left with dirty streets.
Here are some tips of what to do (but be sure to take a fun fall photo or two before you clean it all up!)
So you have Bed Bugs
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From a PSP-er who has been there, done that and had to throw away the T shirt (or at least tumble dried it for 30+ minutes)
Pain in the butt! How to deal with a neighbor who smokes
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Over the years, PSP members have asked the group about smelling cigarette and cigar smoke from their neighbors.
IPhone Apps for kids
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Recommendations from the PSP community on iPhone apps their kids love.
Taking Fall Photos of your Kids
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- Category: Fall Fun, Home Life
It's FALL and the leaves are beautiful right now. Take some time to use the backdrop of the fall to get some great photos of your family.
Tips:
- Take photos of leaf fights and kids throwing leaves up in the air.
- Look for contrasting colors (bright yellow leaves against a dark colored rock).
- Have the kids lay down in the leaves or buried in the leaves. (For older subjects take photos from head to toe to avoid double chins!)
- Kids don't have to be in fall colors-- other colors such as blue and green "pop."
- Photograph during sunrise or sunset for the best light and color.
- Photograph outdoors when your shadow is longer than you are, usually in the afternoon (Today near the 9th Street Playground the sun was going behind the buildings around 4:00)
- Take photos with the sun coming through the leaves but use a tree trunk or something else so so there's no direct light going into your lens.
- If you are taking portraits, consider turning on your flash to get both the leaf color AND your kids faces. Okay, it's a bit 80s, but use the sun to backlight your hair from behind (using a flash to light up your face-- but stand back so the flash isn't too stark. Lay on the ground with your subject above you so you get the leaves and tree limbs as part of the background. (Double check that there's not a big limb as a horn).
Okay-- more techy stuff:
- Use a Polarizing lens if you've got one.
- Underexpose your shots slightly
- Use portrait mode to blur the background.
- Use your macro setting to shoot close shots of light shining through the leaf with the veins showing through.
- Use a short depth of field in order to blur the leaves and JUST get the color while keeping the person in focus.
FINALLY-- Go with another family and swap taking a family portrait-- it's good to have the WHOLE bunch of you. And Moms-- make sure to get photos of yourself!
ENJOY THE FALL!
- Susan Fox
Parking while on vacation
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- Category: Before You Travel, Travel Advice, New York Life, Managing Urban Life
While owning a car in New York City has many advantages, one of its disadvantage is parking - and dealing with alternative street parking, especially when you gone for a long period of time and won't be around to move it. What do you do? Here are PSP member tips for parking while on vacation. 
Shoe Advice For Pregnant Moms
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Tips and recommendations from PSP members for what to wear when your feet swell during pregancy.
How to Stay Organized and Get Focused
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Parents share how they get organized at work (and also at home) and talk tips, strategies and more about how to stay focused on the job.
How do we teach kids about Money?
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"Show me the money!"
Errr - does that sound more like your Tweenager than Tom Cruise in the movie Jerry Maguire? For us moms and dads, sometimes we want it to be more like show me the value and appreciation of money.
Coping with screen time and anger issues
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Does your Tween have problems putting down a video game? One parent asks the PSP advice list about dealing with screen time and anger management issues with their Tween.
Setting Cell Phone Guidelines
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What guidelines and boundaries do you set with your cell phone? Here, PSP members discuss, deliberate and debate boundaries and use of mobile phones and technology.
Park Slope's Second Hand and Consignment Stores
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A rundown of the second-hand, vintage and consignment stores in Park Slope.
PSP Top 20 Stoop Sale-ing Tips
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You’ve seen our tips for holding a stoop sale. Here are the top PSP tips for shopping at one…
The PSP Guide to Successful Stoop Sales
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Follow these guidelines from our experienced Stoop Salers.
Stroller Repair Tips
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Wondering what to do if your stroller breaks? PSP members share what they did to get their stroller fixed.
Slow Fashion Resources
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A decade ago, stores like H&M, Forever21, and Zara seemed like a wonderland: cheap, easy, and constantly rotating stock to match the latest style. But today, with Forever21 officially bankrupt and the climate crisis dominating public discourse, the detrimental effects of “fast fashion” at all levels of the supply chain are increasingly coming to light. Fortunately, it’s easy to take steps toward being a more responsible consumer—and doing so need not mean compromising your fashion sense.
Below, find an array of resources, both virtual and here in Brownstone Brooklyn, to help you learn about the environmental and human impacts of fast fashion and to clothe yourself and your kids more sustainably.
How to Remember Your Reusable Bags
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Come March 1, 2020, New Yorkers will be required to BYOB—bring your own bag, that is. In a state where over 23 billion plastic bags are used every year, the bag waste reduction law—which bans all plastic carryout bags from distribution by anyone who collects New York State sales tax—aims to mitigate harm on our communities and the environment. (NOTE: this law doesn't apply to restaurants.) There's just one problem: How in the world are we going to remember our reusable bags when we go to the store? Below, PSP members offer helpful hints.
Moth Problem
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"A few months ago we bought some rice in bulk and ended up with moths too. Even after throwing out the bag, and combing through the rest of our food to make sure there weren't any more infestations, we still have moths flying around our kitchen. Does anyone have ideas for a surefire (and not too toxic) way to get rid of them?"
So You Want to Recycle?
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Where you can recycle batteries, electronics, plastics, running shoes, cell phones, ink cartridges and more in Park Slope.
Tips to Avoid Bed Bugs
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- Category: Home Management Advice, Managing Urban Life
Bed bugs have infested hotels, movie theaters, public transportation, schools, dorms, etc., etc. They also are showing up in the apparel in retail stores, likely brought in from overseas in the original shipment. The bugs are hitchhikers and frequently lay eggs on, or find their way into, clothing, luggage and furniture. Note: to protect yourself entirely from bed bug exposure is practically impossible, but there are many efforts that can significantly reduce your chances of bringing them into your home.
Taking Care of Your Tree Pits
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- Category: Home Management Advice, Managing Urban Life
Tips for taking care of your tree pits.
Being the Noisy Neighbor
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- Category: Home Management Advice, New York Life, Managing Urban Life
So your neighbors said you are too loud. What should you do when you’re the one making the noise?
Balancing Babies and Budgets
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- Category: Home Management Advice, Financial Advice
It’s time to face the financial facts. Stop avoiding and start planning. PSP moms and dads share the realities of figuring out finances.
How to be a GREAT neighbor when Sleep Training
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Sleep training your child can be an anxious experience in itself. This anxiety is emphasized in New York, where many parents get nervous about upsetting their neighbors with their crying baby in the early hours of the morning. What can you do to keep the peace with your neighbors?
Bills, bills, bills: Alternatives to Cable (or at least lowering cable bills)
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When Benjamin Franklin said nothing is certain but death and taxes - he had no idea about the problems and headaches of cable and internet bills. This article is a summary of PSP member deliberation and discussion about Time Warner Cable (TWC), Leaf, Netflix, Apple TV, FiOS, and more…
Bills, bills, bills: Members understand ConEd and Electrical Bills
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This article is a summary of PSP member deliberation and discussion about ConEd, raises alternatives like Green Mountain and the 2014 increase in electrical costs.
Splitting the Chores
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"Does anyone have a tip on how to divvy up household chores and duties?" was a simple question that resulted in a truely PSP-style way: a lively and engaging discussion about egalitarian households, gender dynamics, work/life balance, and more.
What You Need to Know About Hiring, Paying, and Working with House Cleaners
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Thinking of hiring someone to keep your apartment neat and tidy? Browse through PSP members’ first-hand experiences to get a better feel for the logistics and special considerations involved.
When your utility company ghosts you
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Do you have no power - literally and figuratively? PSP members talk about the power struggle when your utlities company won't follow up with your requests.
Hiring a photographer? Read these important safety and contract tips
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Know what you're getting when you hire a photographer. Some photographers don't include the price of your digital image in their session rate, some people will give you all the digital negatives, and others only a few. Here are some things to think about as you hire a photographer.
"You always cook what you want to eat..."
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A note from the former PSP food writer...
Beyond the Kids' Menu
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Kid friendly risotto recipe...
What To Do With All Those CSA Vegetables
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Suggestions for what to make with veggies from the CSA box.
Liberate Yourself from Takeout with Purple Kale Kitchenworks
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Meet Ronna from Purple Kale workshops...
Slouching Toward Domestic Deity
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How to can fruit and pickle veggies.
Spontaneous Confections
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Gingersnaps in a snap and other quick baking ideas
What's for Lunch? We Can Make it Better!
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How to get your kids to eat well at Brooklyn schools.
Today's Pearl of Collective Wisdom – Peeling Eggs
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How to peel eggs...
It’s Good to Like Kale
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Some delicious ideas and tips for preparing kale...
The Popsicle Pantry (cocktails, too!)
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How to make simple syrup for cold and hot beverages... a watermelon Popsicle recipe thrown in there too!
Parents Need to Eat Too
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Recipes and Food Ideas
easy - and yummy - recipe suggestions for busy moms and dads.
Turning Trash into a Treat
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Recipes and Food Ideas
delicious recipes you can make with food you would normally toss.
Braising Root Vegetables
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Recipes and Food Ideas
How to braise delicious roast vegetables.
The Story of Toast Crusts
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Recipes and Food Ideas
A recipe with toast crusts
Non Sugary Foods Ideas for Breakfast
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Recipes and Food Ideas, Eating
Looking for alternative ideas to sugary cereals and sweets to feed you and the kiddos for breakfast? Here, parents list their favorite morning meals that are easy to prepare. Mix your morning up...
Plant-Based Resources
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Recipes and Food Ideas
Below are some helpful resources for parents at all stages of the vegan/vegetarian/plant-based journey. For more, Park Slope Parents has a Vegetarian/Vegan group. Join here if you are a Brooklyn parent and want to gain access to other families who are raising their children on a plant-based diet!
What to cook for a friend with a summer baby
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- Category: Recipes and Food Ideas
There’s nothing like summer heat to make you lose your appetite. Fortunately, PSP members have you covered with ideas for thoughtful and delicious recipes to make for all of your friends with new summer babies!
Tips for Getting to School on Time
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Family Time Management
Tips for getting to school on time and suggestions of what your "routine" should look like.
Time Saving Tips To Get Out Of The House On Time
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Family Time Management
Parents share their tips for getting out of the house on time as easily, quickly, calmly, and pain-free as possible.
How to Get Kids Out of Bed in the Morning
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Family Time Management, Raising Tweens Tips, Tween Advice from Parents, Sleeping, Sleeping Advice for Toddlers and Kids
Wondering how to get your kid out of bed in the morning? You are not alone with this problem! Here, PSP parents share how they successfully get their teen/tween out of bed in the morning.
Sharing A Room
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Organizing your Space.Kids
Advice on sharing a room.
Better Than Sliced Bread (For Parking Scooters)
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Organizing your Space.Kids
One parent's love tor finding a tool for organizing "scooter clutter"
Allowance: Show ‘em the Money
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Chores, Financial Advice
PSP members share their two cents on what you need to know about allowance
Moving with Children
Bad Landlords and Bed Bug Disclosure
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Moving, New York Life, Managing Urban Life
A guide to helping you find bad landlords and bed bug history in the house hunt!
Security Deposit Tips
One PSP member and licensed Real Estate Broker shares all you need to know for avoiding a security deposit "situation"
Moving beyond Park Slope
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Moving, New York Life, Managing Urban Life
Are you currently agonizing over moving out of the ‘hood and exploring what options there are beyond Park Slope?
TOP 12 Things to Think About When Moving (including what to tip movers!)
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Moving, Gifts and Tipping
Moving can be a stressful time. But if you take steps to familiarize yourself with the way it is regulated and what rights and responsibilities you have, you'll likely have a much smoother move. Here are some things to think about as you prepare for your move.
Need some tips for making the transition with kids run more smoothly? Check out our Moving with Kids article.
Image by Nicolas Huk
Moving Resources from Park Slope Parents
Moving?
Here are useful links to bookmark and have handy as you prepare your move. We've got advice about the logistics of moving with small kids, what to tip movers, the differences of small vs. large moves, how to get your security deposit back, bed bugs (ugh), and more!
Want PSP member advice?
Things to Think About When Moving (including what to tip movers!)
Bad Landlords and Bed Bug Disclosure
Apartment Listing Websites recommended by Park Slope Parents members:
AddressReport: ranks landlords/neighborhood/local amenities.
Streeteasy.com -- advanced search tools including searching by commute time.
UrbanEdgeNY.com -- no fee apartment listings directly from landlords.
InsideDigs -- connects you to the current apartment occupants of units up for rent.
NYBits.com -- aggregates units for rent from other sites.
NakedApartments.com -- landlords/brokers pay monthly fee, but renters do not pay to search. Allows for reviews of brokers.
Craigslist.com -- elder of the bunch, narrow search by borough.
Trulia -- Trulia is an all-in-one real estate site that gives you the local scoop about homes for sale, apartments for rent, neighborhood insights, and real estate markets.
Padmapper -- plots listings, depends on current data; gives you a sense of cost variations
RentQuo.comRentQuo.com -- personal concierges find your perfect apartment based on your lifestyle, friends, and hobbies.
getoliver.comgetoliver.com -- app for apartment hunting
padspin.com -- I also found out about another one, but very few listings in PS :
Looking for member recommended movers?
Get recommendations from PSP members about movers HERE
Looking for member recommended real estate brokers and agents?
Get recommendations from PSP members about real estate brokers and agents HERE
Other resources:
Curbed.com -- good for real estate gossip
New York State Department of Transportation’s Dos and Don’ts
US Department of Transportation’s Protect Your Move website
Read more moving advice from PSP HERE
Advice on Limiting Screen Time
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Technology & Kids
A parent asks: "I'm looking for successful strategies for limiting device time. How do you set clear, enforceable limits without too much resistance, arguing or stress? I have a 10 year old who is predictably addicted to her new iphone. I'd be grateful for any advice."
Technology Advice and Safety Tips for Kids and Teens
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Technology & Kids
Did your child get a new laptop, smartphone, or other electronic device? This is a good time to educate your child about safety surrounding their device - both online and in the real world. This is also a good opportunity to consider a technology agreement (PSP provides you with one!). This is also a good time to think about your family's policy surrounding social media.
New York City Voting Information
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- Category: New York Life
Click here for details on where to vote in your neighborhood
Tips for Noisy Neighbor
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: New York Life, Managing Urban Life
How to Have a Newborn with No Car
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: New York Life
Advice for public transit–loving parents on getting baby home from the hospital and handling doctor's appointments in the early days.
Top Tips for Buying/Leasing a Car during Covid
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: New York Life, Managing Urban Life
Despite daily disinfection and mask protocols, public transportation still feels like a risky option right now, and many families are weighing their options when it comes to buying or leasing a car. The uptick has been a dramatic one: Cars.com reported that through June, walk-ins at New York City-area car dealerships were up 38% this year, compared to an overall nationwide increase of 6%. If you’re in the market for a four-wheeler, read on for tips from PSP members on everything from no-contact car purchases to handling the risks of street parking. And if you’re still deciding, first check out our article on To Own or Not To Own A Car in New York.
Anti-Racism Resources for Tweens, Teens, and their Parents
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- Category: Languages & Culture , Book & Movie Lists For Kids, Tweens and Teens, Raising Tweens Tips, General Parenting Advice
A curated list of movies, books, and resources, drawn from our Understanding Race page and from across the web, to help families of tweens and teens educate and engage.
Understanding Race in Today's Times
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- Category: Languages & Culture , Book & Movie Lists For Kids, Tweens and Teens, General Parenting Advice
Over the past few months, PSP members have brought up race, racism, inequality, and white privilege and its complexities in everyday life.
Read on for resources, and if you'd like to continue the discussion, join the PSP Anti-Racist Working Group (ARWG), which is dedicated to anti-racist discussion, organization, and action within Park Slope Parents and our greater community. If you're not yet a member of PSP, join us HERE; and if you are, click HERE to become part of the ARWG.
UPCOMING EVENTS
Daily, 5:30 pm: Black Lives Matter Gathering at Bartel-Pritchard Square
Family friendly, masked, socially distant neighborhood protest. Every day, come when you can.
Click here for resources from past events!
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Recommended Resources:
Articles and books to read
On being an anti-racist parent
On anti-racism in the workplace
Books
Podcasts and clips
Books for kids
School desegregation and equity
Anti-Racism Workshops
Other resources to keep you engaged
Organizations/places to donate
Past events
Other tips
Have a tween or teen at home? Also check out our roundup of Anti-Racism Resources for Tweens, Teens, and their Parents.
Read Park Slope Parents' statement on Black Lives Matter here.
Multilingual and Bilingual Resources
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Languages & Culture
From books to bookstores, blogs, and more, here are some resources and ideas for raising a family with multiple languages.
I found a baby bird! What do I do?
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Animal Advice
So you found a baby bird fallen out of it's nest. Here are some following resources to help your winged friend!
What to do about Raccoons
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Animal Advice
Yes, there are Raccoons in Brooklyn! However cute they may be, they can be a nuisance when they forage in your trash, nest in your roof, or sneak into your kitchen. Here are tips from your PSP neighbors!
What birds am I hearing in the AM?
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- Category: Animal Advice
Do you wake up to the sound of the morning chorus in Park Slope and Brooklyn?
Photo: an American Kestrel in Prospect Heights (image via here, thanks to a Creative Commons license)
Top Tips for Adopting a Cat
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- Parent Category: Home Life
- Category: Animal Advice, BK Life
Looking to add a four-legged friend to your family? PSP members have all the recommendations you need for the purr-fect cat adoption.
Relationship between Pets and Baby
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Advice on introducing your dogs or cats to your baby.
Steam Pipe Radiator Covers and Keeping Kids Safe from Radiators
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- Category: Safety, Home Management Advice
Radiator covers are your responsibility as a parent (not the landlord's). How do you make sure kids don't touch the radiators or pipes? You can either purchase covers (price ranges from $150 - $500) or fabric pads (e.g., Rad Pads, $50-$100), have covers especially made (see PSP recommendations of people who can make them for you), or some of the less costly alternatives given by PSP members::
Home Safety with Home Help
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- Parent Category: Safety
- Category: Safety in the Home, Home Management Advice
Information about safegaurding your house when hiring housekeepers/nannies/caregivers and other hired help around the home.
How to Handle a Mold Problem
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- Parent Category: Safety
- Category: Safety in the Home, Safety, Home Life
PSP Members share advice about handling mold.
To Own or Not To Own A Car in New York
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- Category: Classic PSP Discussions, New York Life, Managing Urban Life
To own a car, or to not own a car in Brooklyn - that is the question...
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