Education Advice ( The Process)

Homeschooling during Coronavirus: Top Tips for Staying Sane

“Been homeschooling a 6-year old and 8-year old for one hour and 11 minutes,” Shonda Rhimes wrote on Twitter at the start of quarantine. “Teachers deserve to make a billion dollars a year. Or a week.” And that was on March 16—now more than a month in the past, although to many parents struggling to adapt to the demands of remote learning, it feels, much, MUCH longer. We hope these tips and words of advice sourced from the PSP community will help you maintain your sanity, or at the very least, feel a little less alone during these baffling times.




To Red-Shirt or Not? Includes updates from 2013 policy change [Updated 2017]

In light of changes to “red-shirt” changes in 2013 – Park Slope Parents have updated all you need to know. With advice updated January, 2015 and again in May, 2017

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Returning to Childcare & Learning: Lessons

Our Park Slope Parents groups have been talking through sending kids back to childcare. Discussions have centered upon how to deal with separation anxiety after so many months of close contact, precautions childcare facilities are taking, and how to prepare your child for reentry. We even had a webinar with a Manhattan-based childcare facility, Vivvi, about the transition back. Read on for key takeaways!


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Life Hacks for Handling Remote Learning

Summer went by in the blink of an eye, and our kids are once again sequestered behind their screens. As we navigate another semester of remote (and hybrid) learning, our resourceful PSP members have offered up some life hacks to make your days run a little smoother.





The PSP Guide to Public School: Kindergarten Edition

The kindergarten application process can be daunting. Park Slope Parents is here to guide the way, with input from special guest and NYC school expert Joyce Szuflita—“the borough’s long-established doyenne of the business”—of NYC School Help.

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Insights into ICT: What to Expect in the Classroom

According to the NYC DOE, classrooms with Integrated Co-Teaching (ICT) services include students with IEPs and students without IEPs. No more than 12 (or 40 percent) of the students in the class can have IEPs.


There are two teachers—a general education teacher and a special education teacher. The teachers work together to adapt materials and modify instruction to make sure the entire class can participate.


If your child has been placed in an ICT class, read on for insights from members on what to expect. And to find support in all aspects of the parenting and schooling journey, join Park Slope Parents today!


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Wisdom from our 2021 Early Childhood Education Survey

Each year, Park Slope Parents members contribute their reviews for their kids’ daycares, preschools, and pre-k facilities to help fellow families who are considering where to enroll their children. If you’re in the thick of the research and application process, read on for members’ answers to the question: “What advice would you give to people who are researching and choosing a program for their kids?”


Looking for more support on everything from the preschool years to the preteens? Tap into the wisdom of our community by joining Park Slope Parents!


PLUS: You can read all about finding, applying, choosing, and accepting a daycare, preschool, or Pre-K spot in our PSP Guides. Members can download the Guides for free, and non-members can purchase for a small fee.


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January 2014 Kindergarten Admissions Update


If you live in New York City and your child is turning five years old in 2014, your child is eligible to attend Kindergarten in September 2014.

Below are important dates and resources to guide you through the application process. 



Middle School Interview Questions

Based on member experiences & online sources, PSP found that typical interview questions include things about the school itself, what are the academic interests of the applicant, how they are involved with the community, what are their aspirations for the future & what interests they cultivate outside of school.



Middle School Applications

Information about the middle school application process.



Prekindergarden & Kindergarten Application Process

Important links to Public School Pre-K,  Kindergarten and First Grade information.



Saving For College

Tips on how to start saving for your child's college education.




Ready to Apply to High School?

Joyce Szuflita, our own "Brooklyn School Lady" has important new information about starting the application process to High School.




Too Early For Back-to-School? Think again.

Here are Eleanor Traubman’s top ten tips for staying cool and collected when the lazy days of summer give way to the panic of the new School year.



Greener Alternatives for Back to School

An eco-friendly shopping list of all those back to school must haves.



New (school) Year’s Resolutions

Some resolutions to keep for the new school year... or at any time of the year for that matter!




Let's (Re)Do School Lunch

More ideas on what to give your kid to take for their school lunch.



Rezoning & Other News From District 15


Joyce Szuflita, our own "Brooklyn School Lady" has important new information about the zoning of District 15



Ready or Not: Thinking About Middle School

Tips and website relevant for your application to Middle School.



More on Mark Twain Middle School Admissions

Joyce Szuflita, our own "Brooklyn School Lady" has important new information about applying to Mark Twain.

The Mark Twain admissions process has changed in the last couple years; information about it is still a little confusing.



How to ease a school transition for a child with special needs

Tips for transitioning your special needs child into a less (or more) restrictive school setting.



Elementary School Admissions

The NYC Department of Education website maps out all the steps to applying to Elementary School HERE.

Applying to Kindergarden or PreK? Check out the PSP page HERE.



Parent Experience of Holding a Child Back a Grade

From the parents who had their child held back - for development reasons, academic struggles or otherwise - the consensus is the pros outweighed any cons. Here are the voices of experience.



Back to School Serenely

Tips for going back to school and how to combat that crazy feeling.

Credit: Brandy Shaul


Now is the time to put everything in place to make the transtion to the new school year run smoothly. That's why we're reblogging Eleanor Traubman's tips for an organized autumn.


Here are Eleanor Traubman’s top ten tips for staying cool and collected when the lazy days of summer give way to the panic of the new School year.



Tips for the First Day of School - Are You More Nervous than Your Child?

The first day of school is coming up in the next few weeks. With that comes first-day-of-school jitters. Your child may be nervous; heck, you may be nervous. Big changes are afoot, and they can be scary for the whole family, but PSP is here to help!





Resources for the College-Bound Teen

Welcome to the wild ride called college applications. Below are resources that Park Slope Parents members have found helpful in the journey through planning, touring, applying to and accepting offers from colleges. It can be an emotional time, so make sure you have joined the PSP College Discussion group. We will get you and your kids to the end of this rollercoaster intact.

Click to learn more and join Park Slope Parents!

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Is Homeschooling Right for Your Family?


Below are notes from a PSP Webinar from July 2020: Is Homeschooling Right for You?


What inspired you to start homeschooling, and what were some initial concerns? The idea to homeschool came from the Ortons’ eldest daughter, who found that her school wasn’t offering what she needed as a learner. At first, Erik and Emily were concerned about homeschooling in their small NYC apartment and about how much time and energy the undertaking would require, but they ultimately found that these issues faded away in practice. 




What paperwork or permission is required to homeschool? There are four parts to homeschooling paperwork in New York:

  1. Send a letter of intent to the NYC Office of Homeschooling

  2. Create and submit an individualized home instruction plan (IHIP).

  3. Submit quarterly reports on your IHIP progress.

  4. Complete testing or narrative assessments.

Templates for all of the required documents can be downloaded free of charge on Erik and Emily’s website.


What does homeschooling look like on a day-to-day basis? Erik and Emily quickly learned that it wasn’t necessary to make their home look or feel like a classroom—rather, it just needed to be a place where learning was actively nurtured. They soon relaxed into a routine, which generally consisted of waking up together for reading and games before splitting off into solo learning time or collaborative learning (e.g., one child reading to another). As the kids grew older, they became increasingly independent learners, and the oldest three now largely manage their own learning, with Emily taking on a supervisory role.


What training or skills do I need to be my child’s “teacher”? New York State law does not require any specific credentials, and there’s no need for you to acquire special training before you start homeschooling. Erik and Emily consider the child to be the greatest teacher, letting their kids take the lead to pursue what they’re legitimately interested in. Modeling is also key, and by showing your children that you’re still in the learning mode as an adult, they’ll come to understand the value of curiosity, accepting mistakes, and learning by trial and error.


How does homeschooling fit with working from home? It depends on the realities of your job and the makeup of your family unit. Some families school their kids in the evenings or on weekends; some work early morning hours and then school their kids later in the morning. Erik and Emily have sometimes swapped shifts, meaning that one of them works in the morning, one works in the afternoon, and both work in the evening while the kids are having free time. It’s also important to note that homeschooling doesn’t mean you have to be teaching your child for seven hours each day. You may find that children can accomplish much more in a shorter period of time than they would in a traditional school setting, especially if they’re able to help instruct and mentor each other. As long as the learning gets done, it doesn’t have to line up with the timeframe dictated by traditional school.


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Can I homeschool my older child if I also have a baby? Yes! Erik and Emily were initially worried about homeschooling with a baby, but they found that those became some of the most treasured times in their homeschooling journey. Babies don’t need to be doing flashcards or structured activities to grow developmentally and intellectually; simply being in the vicinity of older children who are focused on their studies teaches younger kids that they’re a part of a household that values learning.


What are some of your favorite things about homeschooling? Erik and Emily have found that homeschooling has played a huge role in bringing harmony into their home. They love having freedom from the school calendar, meaning that they can travel in the fall without being hampered by deadlines or traditional classroom hours. By encouraging customized learning while having a variety of adventures, they’ve been able to turn homeschooling into “world schooling.”


What are some of the challenges of homeschooling? One challenging aspect has been letting go of traditional paradigms—e.g., the school day must be seven hours long, or there must be X amount of homework. Given that Erik and Emily attended public school themselves, they’ve had to overcome the impulse to recreate school as they experienced it. That said, there are an infinite number of ways you can create a homeschooling experience that works for you, and it can be an exciting challenge to figure out what resonates with your family.


What are some of the benefits of traditional school that you miss for your kids? One gap that was more challenging to fill was extracurriculars and sports. You can request to have your kids continue participating in after-school activities at their old school, but your principal may not be amenable, in which case finding extracurriculars will take a little more footwork. However, there is no shortage of nonschool-based extracurricular programs and activities on offer in Brooklyn. Everything from youth choirs, orchestras, and bands to theatre programs, sports teams, and leadership clubs can be located nearby. 


How do you manage screen time in the home? This is a question that can be renegotiated on an ongoing basis, considering the age of your kids and the shifting realities of the world. In general, the smaller the child, the less screen time is ideal. Erik and Emily like to have screens put away at the dinner table, before chores, and before bedtime. As a rule, they prefer screens to be used to create rather than to consume—e.g., using a screen to draw and bring to life animated characters is preferable to vegging out in front of an animated show.


How do you avoid isolation (in non-COVID times) and encourage social-emotional learning, especially for younger kids? The strongest foundation for social-emotional learning comes from having a loving and supportive family, which can certainly be demonstrated and reinforced through homeschooling. Beyond that, Brooklyn and NYC have a wealth of co-ops and organizations to help you and your child connect with other homeschooling families. Erik and Emily’s kids have enjoyed taking part in theatrical workshops for homeschoolers and taking part in educational co-op activities—one that stood out was visiting the places of work of various professionals, including a portrait painter and a neuroscientist, to learn about their work and gain skills in interacting with adults outside the family.




How do you deal with a homeschooler who tends to resist taking direction or listening to instructions? Though it may sound counterintuitive, it helps to let your kids take the lead as much as possible on their own learning. Children can only push back and create a power struggle if someone is pushing them, so Erik and Emily’s strategy has been to negotiate collaboratively with their kids to find a learning plan that all parties are comfortable with and excited about.


Is it difficult to homeschool in a small apartment? Homeschooling in a small apartment can actually be a benefit, as it makes it easier for parents to keep an eye on what everyone is up to and for kids to notice and get involved when their siblings are doing something exciting, like a science experiment. If everyone is focused on their own self-directed play or work, there’s not much of a noise issue, but it’s important to respect each other’s privacy and allow kids to take their work into their room if they need some time apart. For Erik and Emily, the biggest challenge involved with schooling in a small space is having to use the dining table for both working and eating!


Will homeschooling my kids make it harder for them to get into college? In a word, nope! Each college has their own requirements for homeschoolers, so you’ll need to check their websites and call their admissions offices. Depending on testing requirements at the schools where your kids are applying, they’ll likely need to self-study or work with a tutor to prepare for the SAT or ACT. But in general, colleges tend to like homeschoolers, as they’re used to managing their own time and self-directing their own education. There may be a few extra hoops to jump through for the specific schools in terms of showing grades and academic ability, but you don’t need to be concerned that colleges will discriminate against your homeschooler.


What’s your homeschooling philosophy? Emily describes her philosophy as child-led and interest-led; she looks for hands-on experiences and considers it her responsibility to invite her children to learn. Erik was inspired by a quote from Robert Massie’s book about Catherine the Great: Gradually, guided by her own curiosity she was acquiring a superior education. Your philosophy will be unique to you and your family. Emily advises that you write down your reasons for homeschooling when you first start, so that you can return to them later, remind yourself why you embarked on this journey, and remember to hold true to your principles.


Further reading and resources:

PSP recently welcomed Erik and Emily Orton to our webinar on homeschooling, where they shared some of the wisdom they’ve gathered over 13 years as homeschooling parents in NYC. Erik and Emily are co-founders of The Awesome Factory, co-authors of Seven at Sea—a memoir of their year living on a sailboat—and parents of five children aged 13–23, with the oldest having just graduated from college and the youngest homeschooling at her own pace with Down syndrome.

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The PSP Podding Guide

Thinking through creating childcare solutions with two (or more) families to help reduce costs, get childcare coverage, and create opportunities for safer socialization will take some planning. Park Slope Parents to the rescue!


Planning on outdoor activities with your pod this winter? Check out our article on Dressing Kids for Outdoor School & Play!





Dealing with After School Guilt

Parents talk about putting their children in after school programs, and how to help a kiddo who might feel lonely or left out because of it.




The PSP Guide to Raising Bilingual Children

The positive effects of bilingualism on all areas of life, from brainpower to academic and career success, have been well documented. If you've chosen to raise your child with more than one language, the Park Slope Parents Guide to Raising Bilingual Children—featuring insights from three speech and language professionals—is the perfect handbook to help you through each stage of the journey.

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The PSP Guide to Raising Bilingual Children features 25+ pages of wisdom, including crowd-sourced experiences from multilingual families in Brooklyn, professional advice from experts in the field, and links to outside resources to help you deepen your own research. This guide is available at no additional cost for members.

Head HERE to download the Bilingual Guide! Make sure you're logged into your membership account to download for FREE. If you're not a member, you can purchase the guide for a small fee.

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Back-to-School Mental Health Check-In: August 2021

Child Therapist and School Counselor Danielle Bocchino joined Park Slope Parents for a conversation about going back to school this September, where she shared advice for parents on managing their emotions and helping kids transition smoothly back into school.


Read on for key takeaways—and if you’re a parent who’s not yet a member of PSP, join us today to tap into the support of a compassionate community.


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