Mother's Day gift ideas from PSP members.
Photos and memories:
- "One of my favorite gifts to receive is a photo album that reflects work picking out photos and piecing them together."
- "I'm not sure where you might get something like this on short notice, but when I had my first child, I bought my mother-in-law a bracelet w/ 3 slots for pics. Every year I update the pics. It's been 6 yrs and now there are 3 grandchildren (2 of mine and one of my sister-in-law) and she looks forward to the updated pics every year!"
- "I'm sending my mother a photo of me 9 months pregnant 11 years ago at the gates in central park in a bright orange coat- and a couple of good pics of my now 11 year old. some moms are immune to gift cards and mailed cards and books etc. Like mine who loves art and photographs and in particular personalized ones like ones I've taken and hopefully ones of me and my child."
- "Send a video of the grandkids, or you telling stories about when you were young."
- "My mom reminded me that one of her favorite gifts was when I collected a set of memories from the siblings (there are 5 of us) about great things my mom did (or put up with). It reminds me that sometimes it’s the little things we do that they remember."
- "I love you because" book (or post it notes) filled with things your kids tell you they love about Mom.
- "Memory Jar: find a beautiful jar with post it notes to write down favorite kid and family memories. Fill the jar with a start of memories, read them on Mother’s Day, then add new memories daily."
Go for something homemade:
"I tend to make a lot of homemade gifts with my daughter for her grandparents, dad, aunts, and uncles, but try to bump it up a notch from a homecraft. It's pretty hard to do when the kids are still eating everything in sight, but I developed a way to make easy no-mess acrylic paintings with her when she had just started to crawl. Thought other new parents might be able to use the step-by-step directions. I got all of my art supplies at the art store on 4th Ave and 2nd Street. The giant 3' x 4' acrylic painting by our then 9.5 month old daughter currently hangs in our dining room."
Creating something with kids' art:
- "Park Slope Copy can laminate anything into a big placemat -- I've done it with my big kid's art work but suppose you could do something with a row of 3 photos or some other flat baby paraphernalia. Also Photofaction on seventh ave at Carroll has some photo gift things -- not sure how quick but they also print photos and have photo cubes I think!"
- “This one is BIG: a Roomba. Saves me LOT of time, and my apartment is way cleaner than it ever was before…plus it helps with allergies.Pricey but well worth it!"
- "To me the best Mother's Day gift would be a planned day -- that I didn't have to plan. Could be a brunch reservation already made -- w/o my input .. a day excursion with everyone -- whatever.... so long as it doesn't require me to make the plans and/or the reservations."
- "Give mom a break to do absolutely whatever she wants."
- "A memberships to their local museums or other great places (or if in the city one of our botanic gardens, art museum)."
A gift to charity:
- "My mom is super difficult to shop for - at 66 doesn't want or need much of anything. Once when I asked her what she wanted for a holiday she told me "a warm fuzzy feeling". I ended up donating an animal in her name to heifer international, and it was much appreciated! Heifer.org"
- "Flowers are always a good treat."
- "Nice adult coloring book with super nice pens."
- "Candles and bath salts (AND the peace and quiet to use them!)."
Coupons books for Mom that could include (and remind mom to use them throughout the year!):
- doing the dishes
- going out with my friends
- I'll fix that in the next 48 hours
- laundry folding
- foot rub
- sleep in
- breakfast in bed
- mom gets to pick what we watch on TV
- mom doesn’t have to cook
- mom sleeps while someone else stays up with sick kids
- weekend exercise coupon
- total peace and quiet for 2 hours
- day of no cleaning
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We’re nearing the end of the school year and lots of folks get thanked, but crossing guards are the unsung heroes that help to keep us safe and who, many times, are forgotten amongst the end of year festivities.
PLEASE take a couple of minutes to tell us about your favorite crossing guard and why s/he rocks? Let your crossing guard know that you appreciate them via this short online form: http://bit.ly/2016CrossingGuardHug
ALSO, forward this post to:
- Your children’s class email lists
- The school administration
- The PTA/PA/PTSO at your children’s school(s)
- Other online groups
- Your block associations
- Anyone that comes into contact with a crossing guard!
Susan Fox & Eric McClure
Park Slope Street Safety Partnership
Here is one of last year's recipients! This neat (and needed!) appreciation day even made News 12 news!
Earlier this month, a PSP member came home to an intruder in her home. It was after she had put her toddler down for a nap that she discovered him hiding in her bathroom. The intruder was able to force his way into her apartment because the lock had not been deadbolted. This is a reminder to the community that locking the knob or lever lock is not enough to protect against break-ins and should never be relied upon as the main security lock.
We would like to take this opportunity to remind you about the proactive measures you can take to keep your home and family safe.
An alarming story, right? Okay — deep breath, exhale.
There are things you can do to protect yourself, your family, and your home. Here are some reminders about keeping your home safe in a big city.
- Lock your home whether you are at home or away.
- Get good locks, deadbolts preferred. If you don’t have good locks, upgrade (you can talk to one of these PSP member recommended locksmiths: http://bit.ly/1SfsPpY
- If you are in a building, make sure that the locks to the building are secure. Get the landlord or building to upgrade to metal plates put on doors so they can’t be opened easily.
- Do not let anyone in the building you don’t know. Be wary of the vague “I forgot my keys” if you live in a big building. Send reminders to your building that folks NOT buzz in anyone they don’t know.
- Close all windows when you leave the house.
- If you have a glass backdoor consider replacing it or adding a storm door to make entry more difficult. Similarly, think about adding storm windows as well.
When break-ins happen perpetrators most often gain entry by:
- Front doors left open, unsecured.
- Unlocked rear windows
- Fire escape windows
- Forcing locked doors, mainly the front, due to inadequate locks.
- Call 911 immediately if you have a break-in. Often perpetrators are still in the vicinity. Waiting to call 911 can decrease the chances of catching perpetrators.
- There is more safety information on the Park Slope Parents website including stranger danger, safety in Prospect Park safety, street harassment, kids riding the subway alone, and more: http://bit.ly/PSPSlopeSafety
- Secure all windows and doors, even if it’s only for a moment. Air conditioners/window fans should be secured to the window opening to prevent being pulled out or pushed in.
- Install and lock a secondary locks.
- Do not leave your electronics (laptops, iPods, etc) near your windows in plain view.
- Install only FDNY approved safety gates on fire escapes or ground level windows.
- Avoid keeping large sums of money and jewelry in your home. If possible, utilize safes and lock boxes to help prevent theft of your personal items.
- Remember that some windows open up as well as down.
BE ALERT FOR SUSPICIOUS ACTIVITY:
- Be alert for strange people in your building, around your home and around your neighbor's homes. DO NOT HESITATE TO CALL 911 to report any unusual behavior observed. All calls will be kept confidential.
- If you observe unfamiliar people who are attempting to enter your location, notify police to investigate. Especially if they are attempting to enter the building immediately behind you.
- If you see a person and/or vehicle on your block for an extended amount of time loitering with no apparent purpose, CALL 911 to make a report. Please make note of important vehicle information, such as license plate, car model, and color.
- Please refrain from posting any non-official information/descriptions of wanted person(s)/vehicles on social networks such as Facebook, Twitter etc. as it could interfere with ongoing investigations. Instead, please supply any information to your local precinct.
- If you have any information regarding a burglary please contact your local precinct detective squad.
The NYPD has programs to register your electronics so that stolen items might be recovered (more here: http://bit.ly/PSPOperationID). You can also obtain stickers on your car so that that if it's being driven during 1am and 5am, the police have the right to stop the driver. There are other great safety initiatives too, stickers they can put on bikes, stickers on older people's vehicles, so that if someone 25 and younger is driving the car they can be stopped, etc.
If you are a victim of any crime, no matter how petty, please report it. Find out more here about what to do: http://bit.ly/1qZo8EE
In the end remember that material things are always replaceable, but people aren't. Be safe and don't try to fight or chase an attacker.
This incident took place in the 72nd precinct and from what this mom told me they’ve been very helpful. The folks at the 78th Precinct have also been really helpful over the years.
Made it this far? Great! Thanks for reading, listening, and being a great member of this community. If we all work together we can help ourselves, neighbors and kids be safer!
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PSP conducted its 5th Nanny Compensation Survey of employers who employ a nanny. These results are based on 750+ Brooklynites who employ live-out nannies who are not part of a nanny share.
Pay Findings for full time nannies:
- $15.93 per hour for 1 child ($.82 more than 2013)
- $17.33 per hour for 2 children ($.87 more than 2013)
Part-time nannies continue to make a higher hourly rate than a full-time nannies:
- $17.43 per hour for 10-20 hours vs. $16.05 per hour for 50+ hours
- The average agreed upon days off is 15 days, while the reported days actually received is 21 days.
- 6 in ten (63%) try to give their nanny time off of the nanny's discretion.
Raises & Bonuses:
- The most common raise given is $1.00 per hour.
- Giving bonuses continues to be standard, with 1 week's pay given the most common amount.
See the full SURVEY RESULTS.
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